What do you think of short guys? and shoe lifts?
I’m 19 and 5’4. Back home (Japan) I was still considered short but had no trouble getting girls. But now overseas, many girls are the same height or taller than I am! I didn’t care about it, but now at college, I tend to feel that Height is a much bigger factor here. So I have a QUESTION for the ladies: What do you think of shorter guys? Would you go out with them if they were goodlooking smart and nice although they are vertically challenged?And What do you think of shoe lifts?
Im normally a confident person but this issue is quite depressing. Any experience with shorter guys is welcome! Help this man to regain his confidence! Thanks a lot
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Susan Yarrawonga (279)
I think every woman prefers to have a man that’s a little bit taller, but that doesn’t mean that if a woman finds a great guy that’s shorter than her that she would give him up.
I think shoe lifts are fine. If it helped a man be closer to my height it would be a nice for appearances and for kissing. So if we went out together it wouldn’t look as obvious that I would be taller than the guy or I wouldn’t have to look down to kiss a guy.
Personally I’ve never dated a guy shorter than me, but I did have a crush on a guy who was shorter than me. I think I would be more self conscious that a good looking Japanese guy who was shorter than myself wouldn’t be interested and would be looking more for the smaller Japanese girl.
tell me about. your very short. i’m taller than you ha
i think short guys look better than tall guys…but i can only date a tall guy since i myself am 5’9. But there are lots of tiny women out there and you look like a giant to them! just imagine a 5’0 tall woman…u are huge to her! height is not everything its more the personality that matters.
For me i don’t up to the physical aspects I must look forward to the personality and character of that person.You must keep in your mind that there are a lot who is shorter than you.
Heh, you are taller than me; I’m 5’0. But honestly, I don’t think its that much of a probably. If you were reasonably hot and nicce and funny and stuff, I doubt anyone would care about your height. There are plenty of short guys who end up taller (and hotter) girls, otherwise models would find a hard time finding dates. Just be yourself and you will do fine.
I think that everyone has his or her own preference. Sure, some girls want a guy to sweep them off of their feet, but others prefer not to have to stand on her toes just to kiss her special someone (and guess which is going to happen more often). Personally, I think that weight, hygiene, and decorum are way bigger issues than height. At least at the superficial level.
I would totally go out with a smart, nice, Japanese guy…. if I weren’t married ;o) Seriously, though. Just make sure that you keep that "nice" thing on board. Don’t be one of those smart, nice, cute guys who is only nice when they want something. Girls see straight through that.
Oh, shoe lifts. They’re bad for your posture, and the girls are going to find out eventually. Just find a way to like your height (you get a better view, perhaps, than tall guys? your girlfriend actually looks hot in your clothes? ), and expect anyone worth her salt to do the same.